Ara Kara

 

it has been amazing to dealing with people and with their emotions. i personally love it because the world of emotions is a rich one and one of many secrets to one self. when we are healing, growing or evolving, many times we take steps that are beyond understanding for our own selves at that moment. we see life, we see what has happened and we stall for some emotional reason and then take a long time to get back on track. 

it has been amazing to see how many people have difficulty forgiving. not only themselves but others. not only others but themselves. it amazes me that we do not forgive each others more often because not forgiving is actually a judgment that has been taken the place of the understanding that was naturally there. why is it so difficult to forgive someone who may be has hurt you, but that ultimately was hurting inside? isn't the growth of that person, the suffering of hurting inside enough? we do not forgive merely when we think we are right about something, when we believe that any other way that is not ours does not mean something. and so we keep on not forgiving and we keep on hurting inside. 

forgive yourself for everything and forgive everyone for the times they have hurt you, without knowing or even knowing, does it matter? forgive others because to forgive them is to forgive yourself and to love them is to love yourself. spirituality is not a pretty concept to wear in a sunny day. spirituality is a practice and the practice of love. and love is forgiveness. so, not forgiving does not only hurt who is forgiven, it also hurts, maybe even more, the one who does not forgive whatever is there to transform in love and light.